What is This or That?
Sixty quick choices, no thinking allowed. This or That flashes two options — coffee or tea, sunrise or sunset, Marvel or DC — and you tap instantly. A timer keeps you honest and a streak counter rewards speed. At the end you get a summary of your picks to compare with friends.
It is the fastest icebreaker we have, ideal for new teams, first dates and finding out that your best friend is a "night shower" person.
Game setup
How to play This or That
- Add players (optional) so the game rotates fairly and names appear on each card.
- Choose a mode — the mood of the prompts — then tap Start.
- Read the card aloud, do what it says, then tap Next for a fresh prompt. Skip anything you do not like.
- Put the game on the big screen with ⛶ Fullscreen so the whole room can read it.
How many players?
This or That works with 1+ players and a typical round takes about 3–10 min. Recommended age: All ages.
Best occasions
Tips
- Start with the mildest mode and escalate as the room warms up.
- Agree on a forfeit for players who refuse a prompt — ten squats is a classic.
- Use Party Mode for bigger text when the phone is passed around.
This or That FAQ
How is it different from Would You Rather?
This or That is about everyday preferences and speed; Would You Rather poses impossible dilemmas meant for debate.
How many prompts does This or That have?
Hundreds across all modes, hand-written and shuffled so you rarely see the same one twice in a session.
Is it suitable for kids?
Use the Clean mode (or the dedicated kids version where available). Spicy modes are for adults.
Can I play online with friends who are far away?
Yes — share your screen on a video call, or send the prompt with the Share button.