What is This or That?
Sixty quick choices, no thinking allowed. This or That flashes two options — coffee or tea, sunrise or sunset, Marvel or DC — and you tap instantly. A timer keeps you honest and a streak counter rewards speed. At the end you get a summary of your picks to compare with friends.
It is the fastest icebreaker we have, ideal for new teams, first dates and finding out that your best friend is a "night shower" person.
All 60 this or that questions are on this page — the same rapid-fire pairs the game deals with its streak counter. The only rule: answer instantly. Hesitation is a forfeit; "both" is a crime.
⚡ 60 This or That Questions
- Coffee or Tea?
- Beach or Mountains?
- Cats or Dogs?
- Summer or Winter?
- Pizza or Burger?
- Netflix or YouTube?
- Early bird or Night owl?
- Sweet or Savoury?
- Books or Movies?
- Texting or Calling?
- City or Countryside?
- Android or iPhone?
- Sunrise or Sunset?
- Comedy or Horror?
- Pancakes or Waffles?
- Car or Bike?
- Chocolate or Vanilla?
- Rain or Snow?
- Camping or Hotel?
- Cake or Pie?
- Football or Cricket?
- Singing or Dancing?
- Online shopping or In-store shopping?
- Window seat or Aisle seat?
- Salty or Spicy?
- Morning shower or Night shower?
- Superpowers or Riches?
- Past or Future?
- Introvert or Extrovert?
- Marvel or DC?
- Pool or Ocean?
- Fries or Onion rings?
- Board games or Video games?
- Museum or Amusement park?
- Sneakers or Sandals?
- Breakfast or Dinner?
- Silence or Music?
- Gold or Silver?
- Bath or Shower?
- Train or Plane?
- Pen or Pencil?
- Truth or Dare?
- Cooking or Baking?
- Big party or Small gathering?
- Save or Spend?
- Piano or Guitar?
- Mild or Extra hot?
- Photos or Videos?
- Tent or Cabin?
- Comedy show or Concert?
- Puzzle or Crossword?
- Handwritten or Typed?
- Sweatpants or Jeans?
- Ice cream or Frozen yogurt?
- Lake or River?
- Toast or Cereal?
- Zoo or Aquarium?
- Bollywood or Hollywood?
- Old songs or New songs?
- Read the book or Watch the film?
Three ways to play
Rapid fire: one reader, one answerer, ten seconds for ten questions — then swap. Match me: two players answer simultaneously on three; score a point when you match. Room split: read a pair aloud and everyone moves to the left or right side of the room — the smaller side explains itself.
🤔 Want dilemmas with stakes? Play Would You Rather
👉 Or point fingers with Most Likely To
Game setup
How to play This or That
- Add players (optional) so the game rotates fairly and names appear on each card.
- Choose a mode — the mood of the prompts — then tap Start.
- Read the card aloud, do what it says, then tap Next for a fresh prompt. Skip anything you do not like.
- Put the game on the big screen with ⛶ Fullscreen so the whole room can read it.
How many players?
This or That works with 1+ players and a typical round takes about 3–10 min. Recommended age: All ages.
Best occasions
Tips
- Start with the mildest mode and escalate as the room warms up.
- Agree on a forfeit for players who refuse a prompt — ten squats is a classic.
- Use Party Mode for bigger text when the phone is passed around.
This or That FAQ
How is it different from Would You Rather?
This or That is about everyday preferences and speed; Would You Rather poses impossible dilemmas meant for debate.
How many prompts does This or That have?
Hundreds across all modes, hand-written and shuffled so you rarely see the same one twice in a session.
Is it suitable for kids?
Use the Clean mode (or the dedicated kids version where available). Spicy modes are for adults.
Can I play online with friends who are far away?
Yes — share your screen on a video call, or send the prompt with the Share button.